eat pray love

• bazen fazla ayrintilara bogulan bir kitap olsa da orta yas doneminde kendini arayan bir kadinin ic dokmelerinden olusmus cok samimi bir kitap.
  
  begendigim alintilar ise soyle:
  
  "in desperate love, we always invent the characters of our partners, demanding that they be what we need of them, and then feeling devastated when they refuse to perform the role we created in the first place."
  
  "addiction is the hallmark of every infatuation-based love story."
  
  "but we are not what the other one needs."
  
  "i'm making space for the unknown future to fill up my life yet-to-come surprises."
  
  ".. it is better to live your own destiniy imperfectly than to live an imitation of somebody else's life with perfection."
  
  "... the problem is the emotional attachment that goes along with the thinking." "you are, after all, what you think. your emotions are the slaves to your thoughts, and you are the slave to your emotions."
  
  "... you should never give yourself a chance to fall apart because, when you do, it becomes a tendency and it happens over and over again. you must practice staying strong, instead."
  
  " prayer is a relationship; half the job is mine. if i want transformation, but can't even be bothered to articulate what, exactly, i'm aiming for, how will it ever occur? half the benefit of prayer is in the asking itself, in the offering of a clearly posed and well-considered intention."
  
  "destiny, i feel is also a relationship-a play between divine grace and willful self-effort."
  
  "..., i can choose my thoughts."
  
  "this is not about repression or denial. represion and denial set up elaborate games to pretend that negative thoughts and feelings are not occurring. ..., is instead admitting to the existence of negative thoughts, understanding where they came from and why the arrived, and then-with great forgiveness and fortitude-dismissing them."
  
  "don't make your life a monument to your ex."
  
  "the wise man is always similar to himself."
  
  "the balinese don't wait and see "how things go." that would be terrifying. they organize how things go, in order to keep things from falling apart."
  
  " i know cure for broken heart.... vitamin e, get much sleep, dring much water, travel to a place far from the person you loved, meditate and teach your hear that this is destiny."
  
  "to lose balance sometimes for love is part of living a balanced life."
  
  " ... all the pain of a human life is caused by words,... we create words to define our experience and those words bring attendant emotions that jerk us around like dogs on a leash. "